From Working Professional To Working Parent

Families come in all shapes and sizes and no matter the route to becoming a parent, the internal twists and turns of transition continue way beyond the shelf life of the congratulations cards with their good wishes and cute pictures.

There’s no doubt the transition to becoming a parent is a monumental one in and of itself and then there’s figuring out how to transition back to work! I still remember how daunted I felt when figuring out how I would ever rejoin the professional world of work, be any good and build my career, having been immersed in sleepless nights and weaning dilemmas for months. Like many new parents I was also, without realising it, navigating an identity crisis – figuring out who on earth I was now! I wonder if this experience resonates with you?

As a coach, mother and now a grandmother, I’m on a mission to change things for the better for new parents - new mums and new dads - navigating this tumultuous transition - with my affordable and carefully designed transition coaching package that comes with a twist.

The twist is that as well as providing transition coaching for the new mum or dad in transition, the package also includes coaching support for their respective line manager. Managers hold the key for turning polished parental leave policies on paper into equity in practice and are a vital part of the equation if new parents are to be supported at this pivotal time and retained for the long term too. It’s a win-win-win approach – good for baby – new parent – business.

Photo by Jonathan Borba on Unsplash
Photo by Jonathan Borba on Unsplash

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“Coaching creates a space for leaning into the disorder of our transitions as we alter and emerge once more for the journey ahead”

Source: Holding the Invisible by Helen Teague, Coaching Perspectives Magazine, July 2023

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PARENTAL TRANSITION COACHING OVERVIEW WITH INDICATIVE CONTENT

1. Pre-parental leave

Transition theory introduction
Delegating and letting go
Timely conversations
Emotional undercurrents

Session 1

2. Preparing to return to work

Identity – who am I now?
Personal narrative – my story?
Rehearsal – practicalities
Emotional rollercoaster

Session 2

3. Post-parental leave

Building adaptive capacity
Self-expectations
Polarities – self regulation,
Network building
Personal brand

Sessions 3 & 4

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“For me, being a mother made me a better professional, because coming home every night to my girls reminded me what I was working for. And being a professional made me a better mother, because by pursuing my dreams, I was modelling for my girls how to pursue their dreams.”

Michelle Obama

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COACHING WITH LINE MANAGERS PUTTING PARENTAL LEAVE POLICY INTO PRACTICE

1. Pre-parental leave

Communication with & about
Handover/backfill plans
Appraisal timetable
Unconscious bias
Ego state
Pitfalls to avoid
Action planning

Session 1

2. Post-parental leave

Walking in their shoes
Showing interest
Career conversations
Approachability
Co-creating support networks
Coaching moments

Session 2

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